The 21st Century Groom

Okay, you've popped the question, you've figured out who want you Best Man and
groomsmen to be, now you just sit back and relax while your wife to be plans the
wedding, right? Not a chance. Today's grooms are taking an active role in helping plan their
weddings. Remember this is your big day too.

I hate picking out flowers and china patterns. What can I do to help my bride
plan for the wedding? Lots. Typically activities like selecting a band or DJ, figuring out
the alcohol/ food to be served, booking a limo or transportation and reserving hotel rooms
for relatives fall into "groom activities" but I can guarantee your fiance will probably want
your assistance in selecting a ceremony and reception site and choosing an officiant. It's
also nice if a groom helps out with the invitations, favors, and flowers, but if that's not
your cup of tea so to speak, offer to do something else.

Looking Great It's true, the bride's dress will probably matter a heck of a lot more than
your tux, but it's still important that you look nice and feel good.

The Art of Giving Weddings aren't the time to be stingy. Your bride and your groomsmen
have done a lot for you. Show them you appreciate it by buying them a gift.

The Rings Once you're done picking out the engagement ring, you'll have to start thinking
about wedding rings for both you and your fiance. Pick out a style you like, get fitted, and
decide what you'd like engraved on the inside.

The Vows and Readings Many couples are now choosing to write their own vows. Be
sure to sit down with a pen and paper long before the wedding ceremony so you don't
find yourself in a jam the night before the wedding. Put a lot of thought into your vows,
they mean a lot to you and your bride. If you're having readings at the wedding, it's
important for you and your fiance to sit down and figure out what you want to be read and
who will be doing the readings.

Remember How Much You Love Your Bride Try to be understanding if she turns into
a "bridezilla" or has an emotional breakdown. Don't mess up your relationship by doing
something stupid at your bachelor party (or any time else for that matter). And above all
else, keep the romance flowing with your bride and remember why you wanted to marry
her.

Heather Greene may be contacted at information@weddingwonderful.com.

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Heather Greene is the head writer for Wedding Wonderful, a complete wedding planning
website at www.weddingwonderful.com. You may contact her using the e-mail address
listed above.